6 Traits of an Amazing AA Sponsor

Once you’ve decided to stop drinking, you’ll need all the help you can get — especially during your earliest days of recovery. If you’ve joined Alcoholics Anonymous, getting an AA sponsor is often key to a safe recovery, and to achieving a life without drinking. But to ensure you experience the best possible journey to sobriety, it’s important to choose a great AA sponsor who can successfully support and guide you along the way.

If you are suffering from alcohol abuse, understand that you’re not alone, and that help is just one phone call away. Call our 24/7 confidential helpline at 800-839-1686 to learn more about alcohol rehab centers that can help you safely and comfortably overcome addiction.

New to AA and need help finding a sponsor? Here are six traits of an amazing AA sponsor that can help you make the right choice.

1. They’ve Worked the 12 Steps

A great AA sponsor has already worked the 12 steps, and has the experience and knowledge required to successfully guide you through the same steps. Ask your potential sponsor about their experience with each of the 12 steps to confirm whether they can help you on your own journey using the Big Book.

2. They Have Their Own Sponsor

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A great AA sponsor will feel comfortable being honest with you.

AA members view recovery as an ongoing journey, which means your AA sponsor should have their own sponsor to help them stay on the path to sobriety when problems and temptation arise. Plus, should you and your sponsor encounter a situation you are both unable to resolve, your sponsor can consult with their sponsor for additional advice, support, and guidance.

3. They Can Speak Honestly

The most supportive AA sponsors are those who can speak honestly, and tell you when you’re making mistakes or decisions that can compromise your sobriety. Find an AA sponsor who isn’t afraid to speak up, and who’s dedicated to helping you stay sober by sharing their honest thoughts and opinions with you.

4. They’re Active at AA

Amazing AA sponsors stay active with AA and regularly attend 12-step meetings. These individuals may arrive at AA meetings early to make coffee and network with other members, or facilitate AA events throughout the community. Active AA members are often the most dedicated sponsors, and highly reliable in times of need.

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5. They Have a Positive Attitude

A great AA sponsor has a positive attitude about the journey to sobriety and about overcoming addiction. When scouting AA sponsors, look for those who generally seem content and happy, and who approach sobriety and AA with a positive attitude. Working side by side with these individuals can often make you feel more excited and motivated about overcoming addiction.

6. They Connect With You

Since your AA sponsor plays a major role in your recovery, it’s perfectly normal to want to choose a sponsor with whom you feel a connection. You may prefer a simple connection with your sponsor, such as being the same sex. Or, you may want a sponsor who shares your same religious views and beliefs.

Regardless of the way you connect with your AA sponsor, establishing a personal connection is necessary to experiencing an enjoyable, fulfilling journey on the road to recovery.

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